What's do you do that you know is against your husband...or
better yet, against God's design???
Let's be honest with ourselves.
Do you speak badly of him to others?
Do you go against his wishes when you know they are only there to benefit
you both?
Are you disrespectful?
Maybe you nag him all the time.....
Ladies, when we do things that are against our husbands, whether it be
verbal or our actions, we are telling him that he doesn't matter and
we don't care. That in turn says the same thing to God. God created
us to be our husband's helper not someone that hurts and/or disrespects him.
An apology is nice but only if it's followed by genuine actions. We need
to show our husbands that we are truly sorry and have ask for forgiveness
from God. We have to build that trust and be careful not to break it but
if we do it is up to us to make sure we do everything in our power to
correct it.
Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a
quarrelsome wife.
Proverbs 21:9 and 25:24(NIV)
Also read:
Proverbs 27:15
Proverbs 19:13
Proverbs 12:4
Proverbs 31:10-31
Let's strive to be a Proverbs 31 Wife not a disgraceful one.
Temptation will come to even the most spiritual among us, but the wife
who holds fast to her noble character will bring glory to God and
blessings to her husband and herself. ~James Dobson