Most husbands, who have been married for a few years, think
they understand their wife and know exactly what to do to show their love. Thinking
that what you have done for years is the best way to show your love is where
ALL husbands go wrong. We, as males, are used to having a routine and stuff we
like to do that makes us happy. For example, most fathers days, wives around the
world let their husbands lay around, watch a game and then cook some sort of animal
on a grill. This is great as a guy because you do not have any responsibility
that day and you can just relax. We are thankful to our wives and we show our appreciation
for their love. Women, on the other hand need a little more from their husbands
to FEEL loved. Always remember that to most women, love is a feeling, not an
act. The following articles, I want to give you guys an acronym to help you
remember how to S.H.O.W. love to your wife while you’re planning something special
for her.
First
let me start with the word S.H.O.W. It stands for “S”imple, “H”onest, “O”pen,
and “W”onder. I would like to discuss “S”imple first. While this sounds like an
easy one, it can be very hard. Planning something to do for your wife can lead
to a very long, long, long list. You do not have to be that complex to show
your true love. In planning your event, keeping it simple is the first and most
important step. Missing this step can lead to trouble. In making decisions
about what to do for your wife, always remember to keep it simple. Think about
small things that she has said or done lately and incorporate that into your
plans. For example, if she is missing her grown children or missing her mother,
maybe during a surprise dinner, you arranged to have her kids or mother video
chat with her. Or for instance, if it has been a long time between vacations,
maybe setup a pool and a beach chair in the backyard after work and pretend to
have a lazy afternoon at the beach. These are just examples, because only you
truly know your wife. Whatever you choose to do, remember to keep it “S”imple.
~Husband
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